Disputes in Relationships are common, but sometimes these small issues become so big that partners get upset, and it seems impossible to convince them. In such a situation, if you want your relationship to remain strong and your partner agrees easily, then pay special attention to these 3 things.
When your partner is angry, the first and biggest mistake is to prolong the argument or try to get your point across. Often, we start giving our explanations or get busy proving Oatselves Right. Remember, at this time your partner does not need your arguments, but your understanding and sympathy.
Avoid prolonging the argument by saying “it is not my fault,” “You are misunderstanding,” or “I did not do anything.” This will make them feel that you do not understand their feelings and only want to get your point across, which can irritate them even more. Their anger will increase, and it will become difficult to convince them.
After Falling in love, we feel that keeping our partner with us every moment is love. But, when someone is angry, not giving them space at all or disturbing them by calling and messaging them continuously can prove to be a big mistake. Give them some time so that they can calm down their emotions and think. Calling them reepeatedly, sending messages continuously, following them, or following them everything. This will make them feel suffocated, and they will try to run away from you even more. This can make them even angrier, and the chances of reconciliation will be reduced.
This mistake can harm the relationship the most. Sometimes, in anger or in the stubbornness to convince, we insult our partner in Front of Others or Start Comparing them with Someone Else. Statements Like “Look, So-Aand-So’s Partner Never Does That,” Or “You Always Do that,” Can Ruin a Relationship. Complaining to them in front of friends or family, making fun of their shortcomings, or comparing them to someone else. This will hurt their self -teem, and they will start hating you. Once self-setem is hurt, it is very different to repair the relationship. These wounds are deep and do not heal easily.
