Even Krishna Cried: The Lesson Arjuna Still Didn't Learn About Attachment
Times Life July 08, 2025 03:39 AM
In the grand battlefield of Kurukshetra, amidst the clashing swords and deafening conches, stood two warriors. One was Arjuna, the mighty Pandava prince, and the other was Krishna, the divine charioteer and the embodiment of cosmic wisdom. The Bhagavad Gita tells us of Krishna’s unparalleled patience, love, and teachings—but what it rarely emphasizes is this: even Krishna cried. Why? Because despite all his efforts, even the mighty Arjuna struggled to overcome the one human emotion that continues to bind us all— attachment.

The Great Paradox: Arjuna Knew Everything, Yet Understood Nothing
Arjuna wasn’t just any student. He was a warrior trained by Dronacharya, a prince, and the chosen companion of the Divine Himself. And yet, at the most critical juncture of his life, he broke down. Not because of fear, but because of attachment—to family, to identity, to relationships.

Arjuna knew truth, but emotions clouded his understanding.



Krishna tried everything: logic, detachment, dharma, karma yoga, jnana yoga, even divine revelations. Arjuna listened, yes—but he didn’t absorb. And therein lies the tragedy. Despite being spoon-fed cosmic truths by the Universe itself, Arjuna remained human—vulnerable to emotions, hesitant before action, and clinging to the illusion of permanence in relationships.

When Krishna’s Eyes Moistened
It is said in lesser-known scriptures and poetic retellings that Krishna, after speaking the 700 verses of the Gita, looked at Arjuna with tired eyes—not from exhaustion, but heartbreak. Here was his closest friend, still not fully free.
Krishna didn’t cry because Arjuna disobeyed him. He cried because he saw the mirror of humanity in Arjuna’s struggle. How even the wisest of men crumble when love becomes possession. How we mistake attachment for compassion, bondage for duty, and ego for identity.

Attachment: The Silent Enemy

Love became bondage when Arjuna couldn't let go.


Let’s be clear: Krishna never asked Arjuna to stop loving. He never preached indifference. What he taught was non-attachment, a radical idea often misunderstood.
Non-attachment is not apathy. It’s loving without clinging. Acting without expecting. Serving without needing validation. But for someone like Arjuna—facing uncles, cousins, and teachers on the battlefield—such detachment felt like betrayal.
How often do we feel the same? That letting go of someone means we don’t care. That stepping away from toxic love makes us selfish. That boundaries are heartless.
Krishna’s tears weren’t just for Arjuna. They were for all of us—trapped in a cycle of emotional dependence, confusing attachment for connection.

Krishna’s Final Hope: Let Action Be Your Worship
In the end, Krishna offered one last insight:
“Abandon all varieties of dharma and simply surrender unto Me. I shall deliver you from all sinful reactions. Do not fear.” (Bhagavad Gita 18.66)
This wasn’t a call to religion—it was a cry for trust. Krishna was telling Arjuna, and through him, us: “Stop overthinking. Just do your duty. Let go of the result. Let me handle the rest.”
That’s hard, isn’t it? We want guarantees. We want returns on our emotional investments. But Krishna said— act, don’t attach.

Arjuna Still Needed the BattleDespite all his doubts, Arjuna fought. Not because he achieved perfect detachment, but because he understood one thing— life doesn’t wait for you to be ready.
Perhaps Krishna knew that no teaching, no verse, no miracle could free Arjuna instantly. He had to live through the battle, suffer losses, and face the consequences. That’s how humans evolve—not just by listening to God, but by living through the contradictions of their own choices.

What This Means for Us Today

We’re all Arjuna—struggling with emotional detachment daily.



We are all Arjuna in some form—torn between heart and duty, confused between love and attachment. Whether it’s a toxic relationship, an unhealthy job, or clinging to past trauma, we all resist change out of fear of letting go.
Krishna’s message is not a lecture—it’s a lifeline.
: Do your part.
: Detach from the outcome.
: Love deeply but never lose yourself.
: And when in doubt, surrender to the higher wisdom within.

The Divine Also Feels
The image of Krishna crying humanizes divinity. It tells us that even the all-knowing can ache when love isn’t enough to heal ignorance. But Krishna never gave up on Arjuna. He stood by him till the end—not because Arjuna was perfect, but because he was trying.
So the next time you feel overwhelmed by your attachments, remember: Even Krishna cried. But he still showed up. So should you.

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  • What does Krishna’s emotional side teach us?
    It reminds us that even divine beings feel deeply, but wisdom lies in continuing the path despite emotional pain.
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    Krishna’s main teaching was non-attachment—acting with duty, without clinging to outcomes or emotional dependencies.
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