We don’t always lose ourselves in chaos. Sometimes, we disappear quietly, in comfort. It happens slowly. You don’t notice it when you agree to things just to avoid conflict. You don’t notice it when you laugh at jokes that don’t land in your soul, or when your smile is polite, not honest. You don’t notice it when you start choosing clothes, words, even beliefs, based not on what feels right, but what fits in. And then one day, without drama or warning, you realise: You’ve built a life where everyone knows you. But somehow, you don’t. That’s when the Gita speaks. Not with loud instruction, but with quiet clarity: Go where no one knows you. Because that’s where the noise fades. And in that stillness, the real you begins to return.
We need places where we don’t have to explain ourselves There’s something powerful, almost sacred, about being unknown. It’s not loneliness. It’s not escape. It’s space.
- Space to choose.
- Space to change.
- Space to ask yourself questions that don’t have to be answered quickly, perfectly, or at all.
The people in your life might love you, but they also limit you. Not out of malice, but out of habit. They’ve grown attached to a version of you they’ve always known. Even if you’ve outgrown it. And you? You’ve spent so long being what they expect that now, when you stand in front of a mirror, you don’t see a person—you see a performance. So leave. Not to abandon. Not to rebel. But to remember.
Clarity doesn't always come from contemplation. Sometimes, it comes from distance
We’re told to meditate, journal, breathe deeply. And yes, those things help. But sometimes, the environment is too dense. The walls too familiar. The routine too rehearsed. When you’re always surrounded by the same people, same roads, same conversations, it’s like trying to clean a window without ever opening it.
- You need air.
- You need unfamiliarity.
- You need to be in a place where no one looks at you with history in their eyes.
That’s when you start becoming honest. Not performative. Not curated. Just… honest. Because the truth is, it’s easier to meet yourself when you’re not being watched.
Krishna didn’t tell Arjuna to run. He told him to see
Let’s be clear, the Gita is not asking you to abandon your life. It’s asking you to stop abandoning yourself in your life. When Krishna guided Arjuna, he didn’t sugarcoat it. He didn’t offer escape. He offered clarity in the middle of chaos.
And sometimes, to access that clarity, you need to step back from your battlefield. Because only when you’re not performing for the world, can you ask:
- What do I really believe?
- What do I want when no one’s watching?
- And who am I, when I’m not trying to be anyone at all?
Solitude isn’t silence. It’s alignment
It’s not about deleting your contacts and running into the mountains. It’s not about starting over from scratch. It’s about choosing to pause. To be alone, not as punishment, but as practice. A practice of listening. A practice of detachment. A practice of remembering your own voice before you drowned it in everyone else’s.
And here’s the twist—once you remember who you are, you can return. Not smaller, not quieter, not safer. But fuller. Clearer. Grounded. Not everyone will understand. But then again, not everyone is meant to.
You don’t find yourself by searching. You find yourself by stopping.
When the Gita says, “Go where no one knows you,” it’s not romanticism. It’s instruction. A deeply spiritual one. Because the self you’re looking for? It’s not waiting at the end of the world. It’s not buried under trauma. It’s not locked in a temple.
It’s been here the whole time. It just got too crowded to breathe. So take the space. Make the silence. Walk away, not out of weakness—but out of wisdom. And in that quiet place, unknown and unseen,
you won’t find a new you. You’ll finally meet the original one. The one you’ve been missing. The one worth coming home to.
