In today’s time, the way of relationships and social interaction has changed a lot. In social media, college, office or public places, boys often feel hesitant to talk to girls. Many youngsters not only shy away from proposing due to lack of confidence, but are also uncomfortable in general interactions. Due to this hesitation, good relationships and friends are not even started. Let us know why it is hesitant and how it can be overcome.
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Due to hesitation
Lack of confidence: Many boys think that the girl does not make them wrong or make a joke, which breaks their confidence.
Effect of society and culture: Sometimes learning or social environment from childhood forces boys to think that it is wrong to talk to girls openly.
Fear of rejection: Boys are afraid that if they are turned down, they will have to face humiliation.
Lack of experience: Youngsters who do not already have a conversation or friendship experience are more hesitant.
Measures to remove hesitation
Adopt positive thinking: Do not bring negative thoughts in your mind before the conversation. Think that it is normal to interact.
Pay attention to confidence: Take small steps to increase confidence. Talk openly to family and friends.
Choose the right time and atmosphere: Take care of the right time and atmosphere for conversation.
Start with simple subjects: Start the conversation with easy subjects like studies or weather.
Pay attention to body language: Smile looking into the eyes while talking.
Practice: Practice is necessary in the conversation. Communicate with people in everyday conditions.
Do not be afraid of rejections: Every conversation does not change in friendship. Do not take it personal and proceed.
