New Delhi: Long-distance relationships have their own set of challenges and trials that any other normal relationship doesn’t get to see. Long-distance relationships offer a chance to build trust with someone who is miles apart. This kind of love is not coincidental or something that flows easily; you choose to love this person every day consciously. It may not be the definition of old school romance, but it is better. You get the dedication of staying with someone through thick and thin.
Which is rare, it is not accidental. However, when met with challenges, it can become a bit tough for both individuals to know how to connect. The right kind of strategies can help people understand how to bridge this gap and be there for their partner.
Small gestures, regular communication and shared activities can help you transform your relationship into something even more beautiful. Technology will be helping you a lot during this time! Regular video calls, surprise messages and virtual date nights can help you feel more connected with each other and be more present in each other’s lives. Setting expectations, being honest about feelings, and planning trips together are the basics of a long-distance relationship.
Virtual dates
Instead of regular video calls, dress up for this one. Cook each other’s favourite food, set up a romantic set-up and watch a movie or even play video games together. This is not cheesy, but just not limiting these to only when you bear both physically together.
Establish rituals
Define rules for what are some non-negotiables for you and learn theirs as well. Be it calls before going to bed, or starting the day with seeing each other’s faces. Or just telling each other when they are busy and won’t be able to be there at the moment.
Care packages
Sick? Periods? Busy? Send them a hamper to remind them that you care for their well-being and are just as present as you would be near.
Set clear expectations
The most important part of any relationship is to express your expectation, either that they can be met or rectified. Who you are insecure about, who in their circle you don’t trust, and all your worries are something they should be aware of.
Keeping a relationship is never about grand gestures. It is about consistency and understanding. When your partner feels understood, they’ll try to understand you as well. These small acts of service and reassurance help you strengthen your bond with your partner.
