Arguments over small things are very natural in relationships. But when a girlfriend gets angry, she doesn’t just sulk—she turns on Angry Bird mode! At that time, many children are afraid, they do not know what to say, how to say, what to do. But don’t worry! Here are some cool, practical and relatable solutions to safely cool down her anger volcano.
Let her talk: Learn the art of not intruding
You know what’s the biggest problem with an angry girl? “You’re not listening to her at all!” So when she is expressing her anger, value her every word. Listen quietly rather than defending by speaking in. Sometimes girls are just looking for a listening ear.
Saying “Sorry” is not weakness
Even if you weren’t at fault in the last argument, saying “it’s okay, sorry” is a wise way to save a relationship. But remember, don’t just say “Sorry”… “I made you feel bad. I’m really sorry.” It is sincerely said that 50% of Angry Bird’s anger will come down immediately.
Small surprise = big result
Lovers have a special thing. They remember the ‘little things’ a lot. Her favorite chocolate or a small rose or her favorite tea! Even such a simple surprise makes her face light up. There is no need for a big expensive gift, a small sincere effort is enough.
Give her space (but not disappear!).
Some girls calm down by being alone for a while when they get angry. In that case, give her space, but don’t disappear. Simple—“I’m right here, talk to you when you calm down.” A short message like this is enough.
Manage the tone of the message – Emotions > Emojis
An angry girlfriend can only “” or “K.” Doing so doubles her anger! Communicate, but in a gentle tone — “I want to talk to you. You are important to me.” It is written that her mind immediately calms down.
