Strong Bonding Relationship: The famous dialogue of Bollywood’s King Shahrukh Khan is ‘Pyaar Dosti Hai!’. But is this just a dialogue or is there some truth in it? Let us know this secret of relationships today. In fact, every pearl strung in the garland of relationships is special in itself. But the strength of the relationship always depends on the string that threads these pearls. It is important for everyone to know about the strength of relationships.
Harvard University sociology professor and bestselling book author Arthur Brooks says that the main reason and goal of marriage should be ‘friendship’. Brooks says that friendship between two partners is one of the most important things for a successful and lasting relationship. During a podcast, a professor told that your partner should first of all be your best friend. This is the secret of a happy life. He is a person whom you want to see till the last moment of your life. Whose company you always want.
Professor Arthur says that often people feel a passion after marriage, but with time both this excitement and passion start decreasing. Then distance, loneliness and tension start appearing in relationships. But friendship begins to deepen with time. In such a situation, your relationship with your partner becomes stronger. There is no place for loneliness in such a relationship.
The professor says that one of the biggest reasons for divorce is when people find themselves alone despite having a partner. Such couples have nothing in common except children. The professor says that solitude and loneliness are two different things. Sometimes you need solitude to calm down and relax. But loneliness is when someone is not with you even when you are together. Loneliness can hollow a relationship. In such a situation, every couple should try to pursue their interests together, so that it can turn into companionship, friendship and then love.
Good and strong relationships are linked to our mental health as well as our physical health. Good relationships can be helpful in living a happy life. Because such relationships fill people with positivity. Makes them feel a sense of belonging. Many studies show that people who lack good relationships in their lives become surrounded by loneliness. They may become victims of depression. They are surrounded by many diseases. Not only this, an increase in the death rate of such people is also seen. In such a situation, it is very important to choose the right partner in life.
