Doesn't it have any class? You must have heard some people saying this at some point or the other. There could be many reasons behind this, but whenever we hear this line, it seems that someone is talking about someone's financial condition in this way. Whereas being classy has nothing to do with it even remotely. Even a very rich person can sometimes be at a lower level. Class has a direct relation with your behavior and politeness. Truly class doesn't depend on what you wear or how much money you have. It depends on how you present yourself. There are 5 things that classy people never do in public. If you also have these qualities then you are a high standard classy person.
If you really have the art of recognizing people, then you must have noticed that people who truly maintain their class set certain boundaries in public and never cross them, even if it is among the people with whom they are most comfortable. So let us know about this in details.
People who are very classy never talk about money or personal financial condition in public and they do not discuss it loudly at all. There are both types of conditions in this. Whether they are facing financial crunch or have plenty of money. Simply put, civilized people always keep their personal finances secret, that is, they do not show off or boast about their money in public places like office, road, or any restaurant. Such people are quite down to earth.
Classy people never have personal arguments in front of others. You might have seen a couple angrily arguing or fighting at some point in the mall, road, party etc., but people who are very classy understand that personal space is necessary. In particular, disputes should always be kept private. He never shows personal arguments publicly. Actually, this does not mean at all that they are fake or that things do not disagree between them. Civilized people know how to control their words even when angry and resolve things peacefully.
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It is said that if you want to understand someone's character, then you should not see how he behaves with you, but rather see how he behaves with public workers like a waiter, cashier or parking attendant. People who are classy in public range from big to small and rich to poor. Treat every type of person with respect.
The specialty of people who are classy is that they do not share their intimate details publicly. Actually, there is a difference between openness and sharing too much information and classy people understand it very well. They do not share personal stories in parties or among their friends, because they know that this is the most personal thing between them and their partner. Talking about which can make themselves or others uncomfortable.
The mark of a classy and good minded person is that he will discuss his ideas, but he never gossips behind others. Even if someone starts this kind of gossip, you will notice that classy people either change the direction of the conversation or politely walk away. In fact, they understand that talking negative about a person in their absence does not tell about the other person's attitude but about their own. So now what do you think…are you a classy person?
