Beauty is only beautiful if the skin color is fair. And not being that is downright ugly. Every eight to eighty people are injured by constantly hearing various jokes about body shape or skin color. whose clothing name is ‘bodyshaming’. Many people were shocked to hear that. Especially in adolescence, those who are victims of such harassment often have their confidence shattered. So during this time parents must be with the teenage child. Find out how to strengthen the mind of the child according to modern parenting.
- Explain to the child that his physical structure, skin color are all very personal. Not everyone can discuss it. And if anyone has done this, he should not listen to those words. A proper response to a slanderer is to avoid him.
- Many are victims of ‘bodyshaming’ at school, private tuition or sometimes by family members. Unable to bear the hurt, many people became completely silent. Tell your child that you are there for them in any situation. So, even if you don’t tell anyone, let him tell you about the sadness that is accumulating in the corner of your mind.
- ‘Deh pot sane nat sakli haraya’, who knows that form is not eternal. Convey this mysterious truth to the child. Explain to him that quality is everything. So don’t listen to these nonsense words and give the mantra to the teenage child to move forward in his life.
- Convince the child that it is time for him to grow. Body changes are normal. These are special stages of life. Teach your teen to celebrate life without worrying about anyone at this time.
- Take care that the child does not suffer unnecessarily. Convince the child that he who makes fun of his body shape has no moral sense. It will also develop his sense of ethics.
Currently the family is very small. On top of that most of the parents are working. As a result, children spend most of the day with the nurse or in the crèche. Various mental complications are being created. So parenting is tough enough in the modern digital age. So stay by the side of the child if any problem arises. Hold him with your chest. Otherwise the results may be reversed.