How many springs have passed together since Satpaka was tied. He has spent a lot of time in his life, happy and sad, since the four hands were united. However, the rhythm suddenly cut off! At about forty or fifty, the familiar family of many years collapsed like a house of cards. What are you surprised too? These days the trend of middle age divorce is increasing. This strange breakdown of the relationship is called ‘menodivorce’.

What is this ‘menodivorce’?

Although the term is new, the reason behind it is not at all new. ‘Menopause’ and ‘divorce’ – ‘Menodivorse’ is created by combining these two words. To put it simply, divorces that occur between couples during perimenopause or menopause are called by this name.

Women usually go through menopause between the ages of 40 and 50. And it is at this age that many well-known relationship equations are being turned upside down.

Body hormones, mind distance

Menopause is not a direct cause of divorce, say experts. But it acts as a catalyst in the breakdown of the relationship. Hormonal levels in the body fluctuate greatly during this time. Which has a direct impact on mental and physical health. Irritability, sudden anger, lethargy or extreme fatigue are common symptoms of this period.

Sometimes interest in physical intimacy also decreases. The husband may not understand what his lifelong partner is going through? As a result, misunderstandings are increasing.

At this age, many women begin to reevaluate their lives, careers, and relationships. They seek new independence, think about their emotional needs. If the partner does not understand that need, loneliness and anger accumulate and become a mountain. And from there comes the decision of separation.

What to do to prevent erosion?
1) Speak openly: Talk openly with your partner without hiding your pain.

2) Be empathetic: Men also need to be aware. Instead of treating your wife’s behavior as a personal attack, try to understand her physical pain.

3) Expert advice: Seek help from a gynecologist or therapist to deal with hormonal issues or excess stress.

4) Quality Time: The two of them spend some time together outside the known table of the world. Try to get to know each other anew.

Staying by each other’s side is the real key in these perilous times, rather than loosening ties.