Love doesn’t lie, it doesn’t cover up. Rather, you can be safe even by speaking your mind in front of each other. But the reality is not so easy. The ‘honeymoon period’ of the relationship passes, the bickering begins. In this situation, it may have been seen that one of the two people would kill himself immediately after the trouble. Instead of sharing your thoughts, keep yourself away from everything. No matter what the other person does this time, there is no way he can reach the person on the opposite side. After some time he comes back on his own.

But even after coming back, he doesn’t want to talk about the problem anymore. Avoids the topic. As a result, it remains unresolved. There remains the possibility of similar troubles in the future.

Psychologists say, the reason behind such behavior of a person can be his ‘childhood trauma’ (childhood trauma). That is, the childhood trauma that the person has carried over the years can affect his adult love relationships. Apart from the tendency to avoid problems, ‘childhood trauma’ can have various effects on human behaviour.

• Children who see their parents fighting all the time at an early age may not trust anyone easily when they grow up. Their minds are sensitive. As a result, if he gets involved in a relationship at any stage of his life, he keeps finding fault with his partner. They think that separation is the only solution even for a small problem.
• A child may have been neglected by parents as a child, that is, parents did not pay attention when he asked for things or wanted to talk, or misunderstood small tasks. Then he gets the idea that he should not let anyone else know his feelings. As a result, he became indifferent. Growing up, one tries to be as detached as possible from the partner’s emotional behavior.
• A child who is excessively scolded by his parents in childhood, grows up to yell at his partner. The idea that love can solve problems does not develop in him.

In case of such difficulties, definitely talk directly to the person on the opposite side. If talking alone doesn’t seem to matter, see a therapist. Problems that can lead to divorce if not corrected in time.