Parenting Advice: In today's time, most of the parents complain that their children only listen to them. Even if the parents explain to them lovingly, they still do not listen to them. In such a situation, parents lose their patience and start getting angry at the children. Children listen to their parents to some extent when they shout. But in reality, they do not listen to them from the heart. If this happens continuously, then even the parents shouting has no effect on the children.
In this situation, the situation worsens a lot. Then there is a lot of distance between parents and children. In this situation, children do not hesitate to answer back to their parents. To avoid this situation with you, it is important that you first understand why children do not listen to their parents. So, today in this article, we are telling you about some such reasons, due to which children stop listening to their parents-
Many parents feel that if they talk to their child in a loud voice, then the child will listen to them. In the beginning, this may happen. But when parents do this continuously, then the child starts ignoring them. They feel that their parents are always in the habit of shouting. In such a situation, the child neither likes to spend time with his parents nor pays attention to anything they say. Therefore, if you have any kind of complaint about any thing, habit or behavior of the child, then instead of shouting at them or talking in a loud voice, talk to them in a calm manner. Also, try to understand their point of view.
Many times it happens that parents talk to children on some topic and when their views do not match, they often start arguing. When parents start arguing with children on every small thing, children stop listening to them. Even if the parents say the right thing and think about the well-being of the child, the child starts ignoring them. Therefore, instead of fighting and arguing with children on any matter or situation, try to tell them about both sides of it and let the children take the final decision. This will help the child to understand your point easily and take the right decision.
Most parents have this habit of comparing their child with other children. Even though they want their child to become better with time, but still comparison hurts the child's confidence. It has a negative effect on them and in such a situation, children start considering their parents as their enemies and start keeping distance from them. In such a situation, they are not interested in anything their parents say nor do they pay attention to anything their parents say. In such a situation, parents start complaining that their child does not listen to them.
Be it a child or an adult, everyone likes to hear their praise. Whenever a person does something good, he likes appreciation. He wants that his good work should be noticed. This gives him an encouragement. This feeling is more strong in children. But when parents do not appreciate the good work done by the child, it increases negativity in the child's mind. He feels that the parents do not value his efforts. In such a situation, the child also starts distancing himself from the parents and does not want to do any good work. In this situation, children stop listening to their parents and the tension between them starts increasing.
It is often seen in homes that when a child shares something with his parents, at that time the parents are busy with some other thing and in such a situation they ignore the child's words. When parents do this continuously, it has a negative effect on the child's mind. He starts feeling that the child's words or his feelings have no value in the parents' mind. In such a situation, he himself also starts adopting the attitude of the parents. Therefore, when parents say something to them, they also ignore their words and get busy with their own things. Therefore, as parents, you should keep in mind that if the child is saying something to you, then you should not ignore it.
