We all want to know how to make our relationships successful, and for many, it's a

But one woman claims to know she has the secret to what all men want in a , and she's encouraging others to listen to her advice because it could be the difference between having a happy partnership with someone and them not feeling fulfilled.

Content creator and psychologist @sarphatieesther took to to share "what all men secretly want from their women but will never tell them". She says that if you take "any man in a relationship and ask him to be completely honest about what it is he actually needs, all men will give you the same answer".

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So, what is the thing that all men want? According to the psychologist, it's "intimacy" - and this doesn't have to take the form of sexual intimacy, for anyone rolling their eyes at the thought.

"The kind of intimacy they want is they want closeness to their women, they want to feel that they can open up about their deepest fears, insecurities, and failures, and still be accepted by their women", she claimed.

She reckons that this is because "most men have a certain pressure from society" and they feel like they "always have to perform" and always have to "fix things", and "therefore their dream is to come home to a woman who gives them a feeling of peace" and "being accepted".

She said that women "these days" expect men to be "emotionally mature enough to talk about their inner fears and feelings", but when they actually do, women can often "panic" and don't know what to do with these feelings, because "society has taught us that men are the problem solvers".

"Therefore, if they don't know how to solve a problem, we see them as weak", she claimed, saying that this is the reason "most men won't even open up to their women" because they're fearful of being judged. The psychologist even claimed that sometimes, women will "use the information and throw it back into their face once they have a fight".

She also said that sometimes there's a fear that a man's "inner secrets" will be shared with his partner's "girl friends", so they can help her process what's happening - and men don't want that.

"But you know that every man will always look for this one quality in a woman that reminds him of his mother, and that is not to be unconditionally loved, but it is to be unconditionally accepted", she concluded.

In the comments, one man wrote: "Finally, someone who understands". Someone else said that men want "a best friend and a lover".

One woman said: "So true! My man tells me everything. He was brave enough to share his deepest desires, biggest fears and greatest insecurities with me and I NEVER judged him for that. I 100% accept him as he is".

Someone else said that she could "not speak for all men", however, saying that different men value different things in a relationship.