Forget fairytales and Bollywood love stories—marriage is not a dream, it’s a daily fight. And Deepika Padukone, sitting right next to her husband Ranveer Singh, just said it out loud for the world to hear! The actress, known for her grace and poise, threw raw honesty into the spotlight: "Marriage is not about waking up to sunshine and love every day. It’s about effort, patience, and sometimes, brutal fights."
And yes, even she and Ranveer—Bollywood’s ultimate power couple—argue, have bad days, and sometimes feel frustrated with each other. But the difference? They choose to work through it, together.
Marriage Is a Full-Time Job—Not a Dream Deepika didn’t sugarcoat it: Marriage is like a job.
"You have to work at it every single day," she explained. "People come into marriage thinking love is enough—but love is just the beginning. What keeps a marriage going is understanding, communication, and the willingness to choose each other even when it’s hard."
This means fights, silent treatments, disagreements, and even days when you question everything. But if both partners are committed to learning, growing, and adapting, that’s what makes a marriage strong.
Deepika made a shocking admission: "It’s not like we don’t fight. We argue. We have bad days. But we choose to stay, to listen, to move forward."
And that’s the secret. Not avoiding fights. Not pretending everything is fine. But embracing the struggles, talking through the mess, and coming out stronger.
If You Expect a Fairytale Marriage, You’ll Be Heartbroken Deepika destroyed the traditional fantasy of marriage that many still believe in.
"If you think marriage means waking up every morning to 'Good morning, baby, here’s your coffee,' and endless romance, you’re in for a rude shock."
Yes, those moments exist—but they are not the norm. Happiness is not automatic. It’s something you create, earn, and build over time.
Conclusion: Marriage isn't flawless, but that's part of its beauty.
Deepika's remarks were intended to illustrate the realities of a happy marriage, not to dissuade love. Love is about fighting well, not about never fighting. It's about making the difficult decision to choose one another.
So, if you’re ready for marriage, ask yourself: Are you ready to work for it? Because love alone isn’t enough—it’s what you do with it that counts.