If We Came Alone and Will Leave Alone, What's the Point of Life in Between? – The Gita's Wisdom on Life
Times Life March 18, 2025 06:39 AM
“सुखदुःखे समे कृत्वा लाभालाभौ जयाजयौ।
ततो युद्धाय युज्यस्व नैवं पापमवाप्स्यसि॥”

( Treat pleasure and pain, gain and loss, victory and defeat alike — and prepare for battle. In doing so, you will not incur sin.)

This verse from the Bhagavad Gita highlights a profound truth — life is a balance of opposites. Joy and sorrow, success and failure, gain and loss — they are all fleeting.
If we come into this world alone and leave alone, what is the purpose of the life in between? This question has haunted humanity for centuries. Are we merely passing through, or is there a deeper significance to our existence? The Gita offers profound insights — teaching us that life is not defined by achievements or failures, but by how we live and respond to life’s challenges. Life is not about the destination; it’s about the journey — the lessons learned, the connections made, and the growth experienced along the way. Here are five meaningful lessons from the Gita that illuminate the purpose of life:
1. Be Where Your Feet Are: The Power of Presence
“अतीतं न अनुस्मरेत् भविष्यं न चिंतयेत्।
वर्तमानेन कालेन वर्तयंति विचक्षणाः।”

( Do not dwell on the past, do not dream of the future. The wise live in the present.)

We often live in a mental tug-of-war between the past and the future — regretting what’s behind and fearing what lies ahead. The Gita teaches that true peace comes from focusing on the present moment. Living in the present doesn’t mean ignoring your past or avoiding future responsibilities — it means not being controlled by them. When you engage fully with the present, you cultivate clarity, make mindful decisions, and experience life as it unfolds rather than being stuck in the loop of “what could have been” or “what might happen.”

2. Embracing Connection Without Attachment
“ममत्व रहितो नित्यं सन्तुष्टस्थै येन केनचित्।
अनिकेतः स्थिरमतिर्भक्तिमान्मे प्रियो नरः।”

( He who is free from attachment, content with whatever comes, steady in mind, and full of devotion — he is dear to me.)

Relationships give life meaning, yet attachment often breeds suffering. The Gita advises that love should come from a place of freedom, not possession. Attachment arises when love is tied to expectations — wanting someone to behave a certain way or fearing their loss. True connection lies in loving without trying to control. When you let go of the need to own or change others, you experience relationships with greater authenticity and peace. Love becomes an act of giving, not holding.

3. Finding Purpose in Action, Not Results
“योगस्थः कुरु कर्माणि संगं त्यक्त्वा धनंजय।
सिद्ध्यसिद्ध्योह् समो भूत्वा समत्वं योग उच्यते।”

( Perform your duty, abandoning attachment, and remain calm in success and failure. This evenness of mind is called yoga.)

The Gita teaches that fulfillment comes from focusing on effort rather than outcome. We often tie our self-worth to achievements — success makes us feel valuable, while failure leads to disappointment. But when you detach from results and focus on the sincerity of your actions, you gain inner freedom. Success and failure become external events, not measures of your worth. Purpose lies in the integrity of the process — showing up with commitment and letting go of the need for validation.

4. Accepting Suffering as Part of Growth
“सुखदुखे समे कृत्वा लाभालाभौ जयाजयौ।
ततो युद्धाय युज्यस्व नैवं पापमवाप्स्यसि।”

( Treat pleasure and pain, gain and loss, victory and defeat alike.)

Life is not meant to be free of struggle — suffering is part of growth. The Gita reminds us that pain is not a punishment but a teacher. When you face challenges with acceptance rather than resistance, you transform suffering into strength. Growth happens when you learn to navigate both highs and lows without losing balance. Resilience is not about avoiding pain but about standing steady in the face of it. Pain becomes a path toward self-discovery and wisdom.

5. Embracing Death as a Transition
“वासांसि जीर्णानि यथा विहाय नवानि गृह्णाति।”
( Just as a person discards worn-out clothes and puts on new ones, the soul discards old bodies and assumes new ones.)

The Gita presents death not as an end but as a transition — a step in the soul’s eternal journey. Fear of death stems from attachment to the physical self and material possessions. When you recognize that life and death are part of a greater cycle, you release the anxiety tied to loss and impermanence. Understanding the imperishable nature of the soul brings peace, helping you live more freely and love more deeply, without the shadow of fear.

Balance Between Holding On and Letting Go In the end, life’s purpose isn’t measured by success or failure, but by how we navigate the journey. The Gita teaches us that true fulfillment comes from living in the present, loving without attachment, and finding peace in both joy and suffering. When we embrace life’s impermanence and act with intention rather than expectation, we discover that the essence of life lies not in the destination, but in the grace with which we walk the path.



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