Ever questioned if Grace and Frankie really got it all? In that idyllic seaside villa, two strong women are enjoying their best lives—no boyfriends, just positive feelings and fun times. They opted to have fun instead of getting married. That’s the ideal, to be honest. It is, in my opinion, the greatest life plan available. I am aware that many of you are nodding in agreement. And I really think that’s where we’re all going to end up.
The crucial issue now is why do we still feel the need to locate a partner? It seems like we are doing an emotional circus performance as we clumsily switch between the worlds of friendship and passion. In any case, let’s face it: female squads are unbeatable, and sometimes your true love is already seated by you, sipping wine and wearing a face mask. However, we are socially conditioned to keep searching for romance.
A man views your dating profile, obviously like what he reads, and expresses interest in joining. Doesn’t that sound adorable? After that, he wants to hang out, have a good time, and go on an infinite “let’s just see where it goes” adventure. Naturally, you begin to feel something and think, “This might be something after all.”
And just when you start to believe, “This is it.” Boom! “He’s the one!” He panics.
Dedication? No. He is drawn to you both physically and psychologically, but is it enough? And what else? I mean, the so-called “love of my life” and I were a walking checklist—smart, humorous, and my age. And you know what? Commitment may wait; attraction is meant to be more than sufficient. He even mentioned his previous relationship, which gave me every indication that commitment was not a problem. To be honest, so did I. And it’s just a matter of “you want commitment, I don’t want one, you freak out, I freak out.” Oh! However, I may not want it either. What if he want one, though? Is the other person being paranoid, or was he the correct one and I’m ruining it by moving too quickly or asking for too much?” It is a consumer collective of people who are afraid of commitment. Although we have a lot in common, our dedication and energies have not matched. Additionally, my single mind is so programmed to think of better plans for the day when considering such life-altering choices. What upscale fare am I going to have today? Which series are worth watching? A life plan? Buffering is still ongoing.
I’m going to live my ideal life the Grace and Frankie way for the time being. A beach home, my tribe, and enjoying life to the fullest with my soulmates.
Tell me, have you already discovered your true love? (Yes, I am referring to your females.)
Watch this space for more drama—or just drama—in dating!
