Gen Z’s love dictionary will blow away parrots, after knowing the meaning of EFGH after ABCD, people said – this is not love, it is chaos.
Samira Vishwas January 17, 2026 09:24 AM

There was a time when love meant only love, but now times have changed. Recently Gen Z coined the words ABCD for love and breakup. But Gen Z has long since retired this simple formula. Now in relationships, mind works more than heart and terms are entered before emotions. outcome? A new dictionary of love, which not only the elders but also the Millennials will be in awe of after listening to it.

After ABCD, now Gen Z has added EFGH in love and people are surprised to know the meaning of these letters. At some places there are red, green and beige flags, at other places there are strange definitions like ghosting that go beyond ghosting. This is the reason why as soon as people understand this new love language, the words coming out of their mouths are “This is not love, this is complete chaos!”

emotional vibe coding

In the dictionary of Gen Z, E means emotional vibe coding. This is the opposite of “being cool.” It means talking with a clear heart, expressing emotions openly instead of hiding them and being honest with the other person. Gen Z believes that feelings should be cleared, not coded, by abandoning mind games.

F means flags

In this dictionary F means flags. There are many types of flags. First red flag. Habits that give early warning that things are wrong. Like calling every ex crazy, not tipping properly or considering yourself more of a genius than necessary.

  • Green flag is the second one in this list. That is, those small things that win hearts. Like after your partner’s date, “Is she home?” of messages, being less glued to the phone, or having a decent bed frame.
  • After this comes the beige flag. Neither good, nor bad – just a little weird. Like the hobby of counting birds, always carrying a pen or paying rent in cash even today.

freak matching

F means freq matching. When your strange choice matches with the other person. Be it a World War documentary or hatred for a particular thing.

What are Geese?

In Gen Z’s new definition of love, the word G has three meanings. First Ghostlighting. That means first disappearing and then suddenly returning as if nothing had happened. After this comes the Golden Retriever Boyfriend. Always happy, loyal and everyone’s favorite boyfriend, who is often seen with his “black cat girlfriend”.

hetero fatalism

Now comes H’s turn. Simply put, “Simply losing hope in relationships.” Many women believe that being happy in hetero relationships is becoming difficult day by day. Also, the second H stands for High Value Woman. That is, an idealized frame circulating on the internet – which sounds perfect, but in reality is like snatching away women’s own identity.

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