I was in a long-distance relationship with a guy for 1.5 years. After we had an argument, he blocked me everywhere. I tried to fix things and even traveled to another city to apologize. But when I met him, he said, “I don’t know her,” as if I meant nothing to him.

I don’t know how many other girls he might have treated like this, but I feel like I was completely discarded. Everything seemed fine for most of our relationship, though in the last two months we were having frequent fights. After our final argument, he blocked me without any closure. I kept trying to contact him, but he ignored me.

I even sent apology gifts to his place, but there was still no response. After 7–8 days, I went to his city, and that’s when he denied knowing me.

For the past two months, whenever I talked about ending the relationship, he used to say, “That’s not even an option.” His family and friends knew about me, and he always made me believe he was serious about the relationship. He never gave me any warning that something like this could happen. It felt like he completely changed overnight, even though he had promised marriage and wanted to make things official soon.

Honestly, if I had known he would behave like this, I would never have gone to see him. Now I’m left wondering if someone like this should be exposed, because I don’t know how many other girls he might be treating the same way.Please give your advice. Thanks.

Solutions: Moona Noor Khan

Forget him.Take it as a bad experience, learn from it, and move on. There must have been clear red flags, but of course you ignored them.

There is no point in making anything public—just let it be and move on with your life. He is not important.

You are important.Good riddance.

Shahmeer Afan

It’s funny how everything seemed perfect for 1.5 years—families knew, marriage talks were happening, gifts were accepted, and efforts were mutual—but now the question suddenly is whether he should be exposed.

If someone was truly that dangerous, such doubts wouldn’t only arise after a breakup. What he did was wrong, no doubt, but relationships do fail, fights can ruin things, feelings can change, and people can leave in painful ways. That still doesn’t mean a social media trial should start immediately.

Sometimes, moving on quietly with self-respect hurts less than public drama ever will. May Allah be kind, heal both hearts, and protect people from becoming bitter after heartbreak.

Anabiya Gujjar

I think you should leave him and move on with your life. Love doesn’t involve revenge. Forget him and forgive him. This will be your way of dealing with him—leave the rest to Allah. Stay blessed .

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