I need advice on what I should do next.

I have been in a relationship with a boy from my university since January 2025. Everything was fine in the beginning. Around September 2025, he suddenly decided to take the IELTS exam and passed it. I later found out in December that he had been using me for his own needs.

In January 2026, he left Pakistan to study abroad. He had been promising me since April 2025 that he would marry me. After he left, I discovered that he had lied about his family—he said he had two sisters, but actually he has four.

He told me to move on, but I kept begging him not to leave me. Then he said he cannot marry me unless his sister gets married first.

Now he does not reply to my messages, but he is active on social media. I also have pictures and chats as proof that I was emotionally pressured into certain things.

I am thinking about exposing him to his family and cousins after finding them on social media. I feel very betrayed and used. What should I do? Please give your advice. Thanks .

Solutions; Ishtiaq Ahmed

Sorry to say, but unlawful relationships often end in painful outcomes like this. Now, sincerely seek forgiveness from Allah (Astaghfirullah), leave the past behind, and move forward with dignity and peace.

Engr Israr Ahmad

Right now, the most important thing is to protect your peace, dignity, and future—not to make decisions purely out of pain or anger.

Exposing him to his family or sharing private chats and photos may give temporary emotional relief, but it can also lead to more stress, drama, and emotional harm for you later. Instead, focus on actions that help you heal and regain control of your life.

Moona Noor Khan

Forget him!!!

Why do girls not stay within the limits set by religion, society, and family?

He has already achieved what he wanted—now he will never come back.

He is the breadwinner of his family. If you expose him in front of them, what will you gain? Nothing. He is providing them financial stability, and only you will end up being exposed.

Forget him and move on. Yes, do not forgive him—leave your case to Allah. He will take revenge for you. Karma is the best!

He was deceitful in the relationship. The best thing is to move on. InshaAllah, you will find a much better partner who will take care of you.

Saboor Khattak

If you have talked about your past and this so-called relationship with him to others in your family or his family, it could also harm your dignity and respect. And what difference would it really make?

You should understand that love has become one of the biggest scams of the 21st century. Try to move on and avoid getting into such relationships in the future.

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