What exactly do people want from a love relationship? A specific name for the relationship, which he can tell ten other people. The traditional norms of the society have come down one by one engagement, marriage, family, children. So often two people in a relationship ask each other, ‘What am I to you?’ There are so many disagreements and arguments about this.

But with the change of time, the type of relationship is changing. Exactly what people expect from a relationship is also changing rapidly. It is seen that the modern generation is not at all worried about the name of the relationship. Must get married within a certain time, must be old enough to give birth to children – he is reluctant to set such goals in front of himself.

Rather, he sees dating as a flowing river. Go where the speed goes. Or, such a relationship can be compared to a wild flower. Which grows up without any specific care. If given a chance, it will plant its head anywhere. No one knows what the future holds.

And that’s why such nameless relationship is called ‘Wildflowering’. This name is popularized by the popular dating app Bumble. The name is derived by analyzing the recent behavior of the app’s users. They observed that many people are spontaneously seeking to meet new people without the pressure of a future relationship, without the burden of deadlines or social expectations.

In this type of relationship there is sex at will. But there is no taboo about sex, that is, sex means that its next step is marriage, there is no such obligation. The idea behind ‘wildflowering’ is to let a relationship develop on its own.

But there are harmful aspects!
The biggest problem with this type of dating is when two people have different ideas about the nature of the relationship. One may not really expect much. You can end the relationship at any time and move on. But others imagine the future in their minds. Such a situation is not good for the mental health of either of them.

So at the beginning some general rules should be clarified.

• Do both agree on ‘wildflowering’? Learn by talking.
• If you feel that extra expectations are being born, immediately inform the person on the other side. Move away if necessary.
• If you believe in open relationship, i.e. you are looking for casual relationship with multiple people at the same time, definitely let us know in the beginning.

According to experts, if there is no rush for marriage, people can mix with the opposite person very comfortably. Wildflowering may reduce the current rising divorce rate to some extent.