The husband, returning from the office, sat down in front of the TV with the remote in his hand. And the wife, taking off her bag, entered the kitchen. This is more or less the picture of every housewife. However, things are changing these days. The new generation no longer wants to rush in like their mothers and grandmothers. They say they absolutely hate cooking. There is a reason behind this, which will surprise you quite a bit.
First of all, the new generation claims that they have never seen any harmony in the division of kitchen responsibilities. They have always seen men returning from office get the opportunity to sit with the remote in their hands. At that time, it is the responsibility of women to arrange tea or food in front of them. However, that woman may have just returned from the office and rushed in. But no one even thinks about her.
Secondly, once upon a time, mothers and grandmothers would cook five dishes and serve them in front of men. Most men would just eat them. They never thought of sharing the kitchen responsibilities.
Thirdly, girls in many families are forced to learn cooking from a young age. They are told that they must learn it in order to get married. As a result, they develop a hatred for cooking from a young age.
Fourth, when cooking becomes a daily chore, many women no longer enjoy it. They feel like they have to cook something and make arrangements to eat. As a result, cooking becomes a mere burden.
Fifthly, there are many times when you don’t find anyone to praise your cooking. However, many men criticize you for your flaws and shortcomings. Some say, “The bread is not round,” while others criticize you for saying, “There is too much salt in the curry.” Repeatedly saying this builds resentment in your mind. And that makes many young women resent cooking.
As a result, many modern young women want to be free from the important responsibility of cooking. Some decide to hire people to cook for them at home in exchange for money. For others, home delivery is the only option. However, cooking is not a job for women alone. Men can also do it if they want. Teach your children about this from a young age. This will eliminate gender inequality in your inner circle. The society will be more beautiful.