Lifestyle News Desk, There is a saying that where there is love, there is also conflict. Whatever be the relationship, there are bound to be arguments, conflicts, ups and downs, fights. Friendship is such a relationship in which many times an argument starts while talking on any topic and then the conversation stops. But, if the friendship is deep and strong then sometimes good friends cannot stay away from each other for long. They forget their ego and resentment and come forward themselves. They then hug each other and say sorry. But, what to do when the argument and fight becomes so serious that no one comes forward to end the fight and keeps thinking why should I go in the first place to say sorry.
Fights and arguments happen in all relationships, it does not mean that you should break your friendship. If your best friend is angry, there's no harm in taking a step forward. Bringing ego into relationships is never good. If you do not want to lose your friend and want to start a conversation with him, then in these four ways you can move your friendship forward again.
1. Whatever the reason for your fight, it's best to take a step back. What I mean to say is that you should remove your ego from within and go and say sorry to your friend. Of course, it is not your fault, but precious relationships in life are built with great difficulty, so do not lose them just for a small mistake, argument, fight. Calm down and think once. This may help you understand the situation more rationally.
2. When you have a fight, separate from each other for some time. Keep your mind calm, because talking in anger can spoil the matter. Only when you have calmed down, have an honest conversation to end this fight. Listen to your friend's perspective and try to see things from their perspective. Be prepared to discuss the issue and find solutions together.
3. If it is your fault then definitely apologize. If you said or did something wrong, take responsibility for your behavior and apologize. This will not make you smaller. Be sincere when apologizing. Acknowledge how what you did or said may affect your friend. If your friendship is very old then do not let it break because of one mistake of yours and stop your friend from going away on his own.
4. If you have to compromise with your friend to end the fight, then do so. Work together on this. Find a solution that will work to bring the two of you back together. Once you've resolved the problem, it's important to let go of any resentment or hard feelings and move on. Think about strengthening your friendship. Focus on building more positive relationships. Do not take small disputes to heart. Remember, a true friend is very difficult to find in life.